How To Tell Someone That U R Attracted To Them

 

      There are several creative ways to tell someone that you are attracted to him or her. Ideally, before doing this, you should make sure that the person who you are attracted to is available first. This is just a sign of respect for both the other person and yourself. Once you know that your love interest is single, get your creative wheels turning and select the best way to express yourself.

          

         Some people are not shy and feel comfortable with sharing their feelings over a coffee or a dinner out somewhere together. Other people are more private and want to express their heartfelt feelings in a more private place like while walking on a nature trail or maybe at home. If openly talking about your feelings is not your style; maybe a letter or an email would be better. Some people express themselves better in a letter than talking in person.

        

           Other ways to get your feelings out there would be through creative romantic gestures. For instance, if a man is interested in a woman, he could send her a single rose or a bunch of wild flowers with a card expressing how he feels about her. On the other hand, if a woman is interested in a man, she could get him a small gift that he would like, relating to his interests. Small gifts express feelings of attraction and love for another person.

          Another thing that either a man or a woman can do to express attraction is to prepare a romantic dinner at home with good food, fine wine, candles and music. A homemade, romantic evening can really express love for someone. Also a weekend away to a romantic place is a way to express feelings for someone. Simply spend more and more time with the one you are attracted to, doing things that you both love to do and see what happens!

          Notes of affection are also well received generally. For example, place a romantic note in a shoe or pocket and wait for them to find it. You may find yourself a little anxious as you wait for his or her response, but it is a fun way to say that you like or love someone. Plus, notes are nice keepsakes for couples to have if they end up in a loving relationship and they want to reflect their romantic relationship’s beginning.

        Another romantic gesture is to meet someone for lunch with a picnic that includes good food and a nice dessert. You could meet your loved one at noon and drive to where you can see the water and share a romantic picnic lunch together. This makes a great impression on a person and also makes an interesting romantic break in the middle of both of your workdays.

          These ideas are just a few of the ways in which you can tell someone that you are attracted to them. Body language is a very obvious form of expressing your feelings. The innocence of a warm smile, reaching for someone’s hand or even giving a loving hug can really say a lot when it comes to showing attraction. If the attraction is mutual, you may even share your first kiss together and a new relationship may develop. You cannot be shy to express your feelings of attraction to someone because you may miss out on the best relationship you could ever have. Take a chance and express yourself!

Chemistry of LOVE.........

A relationship that involves an intense chemistry between two people is extremely powerful! Sometimes chemistry is the reason that the relationship starts, while other times chemistry is discovered after the relationship is initiated. When there is a relationship that lacks chemistry, it tends to lead to a different kind of love or a more platonic friendship.

Chemistry between two people can be described as a type of biological electricity that gives the couple a rush of passion when they are together. Sometimes the chemistry is so powerful between a couple, that it can be mutually felt when they are just in each other’s presence and are not even touching. It is this non-tangible type of chemistry that is the most powerful of all, as it just intensifies the closer the two people get to each other. When such a couple’s hands touch, there is an instant biological response, which almost makes them feel like they are weightless and floating.

True, powerful chemistry is emotionally intoxicating for the couple involved. Couples that are this intensely attracted find it hard to pull away from each other in order to address other aspects of their day to day life. It is almost as though the couple is experiencing a huge amount of passion toward each other, which takes them to a personal world of their own, filled with the deepest of attraction toward each other.

Although chemistry is a very strong feeling between couples, it can exist without real love. Chemistry without love is something that can be emotionally hurtful unless both people are on the same page about the relationship. Love is not all about the biological experiences between two people. Love and compassion is expressed in many ways. A couple can deeply love each other but lack the intense chemistry that some people are fortunate enough to experience. No one type of relationship is any better, they are just different.

Often, a couple who lacked chemistry in the beginning discovers it over time. This is a gradual type of love, which takes time to mature and grow stronger and stronger. This sort of love is like when a person is making a fire in the fireplace and to grow from a small spark to a glowing, vibrant flame. The evolution of such a love can be filled with lots of ups and downs, which make the relationship stronger over time. It can be a challenging and yet very beautiful experience for both people. Sometimes it is the difficult times that make a person appreciate the good times when they have them.

Chemistry is not needed to be in love, but if you have it, it is often a very powerful love that takes the couple to emotional levels that exceed anything imaginable. The key is to be open to feel and experience your true emotions. Sometimes people are so stressed and worried about so many things that they don’t loosen up enough to feel a chemistry that could be there. Release you inhibitions and feel whatever attractions are there to feel. You may be suddenly surprised by the fact that the person, who was only your friend for so long, is actually your soul mate and the chemistry between you takes you through the roof! Don’t be so distracted that you overlook the obvious. Sometimes what you are looking for it right in front of you!