Tuesday, March 30, 2010

     How To Tell Someone That U R Attracted To Them

 

      There are several creative ways to tell someone that you are attracted to him or her. Ideally, before doing this, you should make sure that the person who you are attracted to is available first. This is just a sign of respect for both the other person and yourself. Once you know that your love interest is single, get your creative wheels turning and select the best way to express yourself.
          
         Some people are not shy and feel comfortable with sharing their feelings over a coffee or a dinner out somewhere together. Other people are more private and want to express their heartfelt feelings in a more private place like while walking on a nature trail or maybe at home. If openly talking about your feelings is not your style; maybe a letter or an email would be better. Some people express themselves better in a letter than talking in person.
        
           Other ways to get your feelings out there would be through creative romantic gestures. For instance, if a man is interested in a woman, he could send her a single rose or a bunch of wild flowers with a card expressing how he feels about her. On the other hand, if a woman is interested in a man, she could get him a small gift that he would like, relating to his interests. Small gifts express feelings of attraction and love for another person.

          Another thing that either a man or a woman can do to express attraction is to prepare a romantic dinner at home with good food, fine wine, candles and music. A homemade, romantic evening can really express love for someone. Also a weekend away to a romantic place is a way to express feelings for someone. Simply spend more and more time with the one you are attracted to, doing things that you both love to do and see what happens!

          Notes of affection are also well received generally. For example, place a romantic note in a shoe or pocket and wait for them to find it. You may find yourself a little anxious as you wait for his or her response, but it is a fun way to say that you like or love someone. Plus, notes are nice keepsakes for couples to have if they end up in a loving relationship and they want to reflect their romantic relationship’s beginning.

        Another romantic gesture is to meet someone for lunch with a picnic that includes good food and a nice dessert. You could meet your loved one at noon and drive to where you can see the water and share a romantic picnic lunch together. This makes a great impression on a person and also makes an interesting romantic break in the middle of both of your workdays.

          These ideas are just a few of the ways in which you can tell someone that you are attracted to them. Body language is a very obvious form of expressing your feelings. The innocence of a warm smile, reaching for someone’s hand or even giving a loving hug can really say a lot when it comes to showing attraction. If the attraction is mutual, you may even share your first kiss together and a new relationship may develop. You cannot be shy to express your feelings of attraction to someone because you may miss out on the best relationship you could ever have. Take a chance and express yourself!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Chemistry of LOVE.........

A relationship that involves an intense chemistry between two people is extremely powerful! Sometimes chemistry is the reason that the relationship starts, while other times chemistry is discovered after the relationship is initiated. When there is a relationship that lacks chemistry, it tends to lead to a different kind of love or a more platonic friendship.

Chemistry between two people can be described as a type of biological electricity that gives the couple a rush of passion when they are together. Sometimes the chemistry is so powerful between a couple, that it can be mutually felt when they are just in each other’s presence and are not even touching. It is this non-tangible type of chemistry that is the most powerful of all, as it just intensifies the closer the two people get to each other. When such a couple’s hands touch, there is an instant biological response, which almost makes them feel like they are weightless and floating.

True, powerful chemistry is emotionally intoxicating for the couple involved. Couples that are this intensely attracted find it hard to pull away from each other in order to address other aspects of their day to day life. It is almost as though the couple is experiencing a huge amount of passion toward each other, which takes them to a personal world of their own, filled with the deepest of attraction toward each other.

Although chemistry is a very strong feeling between couples, it can exist without real love. Chemistry without love is something that can be emotionally hurtful unless both people are on the same page about the relationship. Love is not all about the biological experiences between two people. Love and compassion is expressed in many ways. A couple can deeply love each other but lack the intense chemistry that some people are fortunate enough to experience. No one type of relationship is any better, they are just different.
Often, a couple who lacked chemistry in the beginning discovers it over time. This is a gradual type of love, which takes time to mature and grow stronger and stronger. This sort of love is like when a person is making a fire in the fireplace and to grow from a small spark to a glowing, vibrant flame. The evolution of such a love can be filled with lots of ups and downs, which make the relationship stronger over time. It can be a challenging and yet very beautiful experience for both people. Sometimes it is the difficult times that make a person appreciate the good times when they have them.

Chemistry is not needed to be in love, but if you have it, it is often a very powerful love that takes the couple to emotional levels that exceed anything imaginable. The key is to be open to feel and experience your true emotions. Sometimes people are so stressed and worried about so many things that they don’t loosen up enough to feel a chemistry that could be there. Release you inhibitions and feel whatever attractions are there to feel. You may be suddenly surprised by the fact that the person, who was only your friend for so long, is actually your soul mate and the chemistry between you takes you through the roof! Don’t be so distracted that you overlook the obvious. Sometimes what you are looking for it right in front of you!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Is there a right way to LOVE

        There are so many different interpretations of what love is that one might wonder if there is a right way to love? Actually, there is no correct way to love because love means so many different things to different people. What may be an act of love for one couple may not even come close to what love is to another couple. Love is unique to every individual and every couple. The things that a couple does for each other in a relationship to express love, is very personal to them. Of course there are some general, common beliefs about what love is but when it comes to the details on how to love, this is unique to each individual and each couple for that matter.
          
          For instance, a couple might do random acts of kindness for each other to express their love for one another. In another relationship, acts of kindness here and there may not be enough. Often, couples have expectations of each other, which need to be satisfied by their partner for love to exist between them in the fullest sense. When couples are in a relationship and one partner doesn’t meet the needs of the other, there may be tension between them. Love is such a delicate balance of give and take it seems. What is expected of a loving relationship various among people.

          It is amazing actually, when no two people are the same, that love can exist as it does. It must be that people are attracted to their opposites in many situations. Not to say that couples don’t share similarities, but they certainly are not the same. When people are not the same, they think, feel and behave differently about different things. It is a rather large accomplishment actually to find love in relationships full of differences. The key is the appreciation of differences rather than the criticism of them.
           Issues arise when people in relationships go into the relationship expecting their partner to think, feel and behave as they do or as a past partner did. This sort of unrealistic expectation is the perfect way to unhappiness in a relationship. This goes back to appreciation of each other’s differences and individuality. Some of the happiest couples are those who respect each other’s differences. Not to say that people in relationships should be pardoning and respecting their partner for differences in thoughts, feelings or behaviors which are destructive to the relationship. There is a need to mutually use discretion in drawing the line as to what differences are workable in the relationship and which ones are going to cause it to fail. Trust your instincts on this one and you should be fine.

          In conclusion, if a person is seeking the right way to love in their relationship, they just need to trust their heart and mind on this one. Go with what your heart tells you and with what you know about the likes and dislikes of your partner. Be emotionally and mentally in tune with the one you love and you should have no problem finding the right way to love in your relationship.

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Something Little bit About Myself...........................

The meaning of  RAHUL
        RAHUL has multiple meanings and origins. The Arabic version of RAHUL means Traveler.. The Sanskrit version of RAHUL means it means conqueror of all miseries. The Indian version of RAHUL means Capable. Rahul, a popular male name in India, has a variety of meanings. The earliest meaning found in the Upanishads is "conqueror of all miseries". Later use of the word is attributed to the Buddha, who named his son Rahul as he felt that family ties could be an obstacle in the path to renunciation and nirvana. Buddha uttered Rahul when he first saw his son and gave a new meaning "relationship" to this name. Rahul means Moon, Able/efficient in Sanskrit.

Numerological Meaning
          People with this name tend to be very warm and nurturing. They are extremely reliable and are often found taking care of others. They have a deep need to try and create harmony in their surroundings. Unfortunately, this can sometimes lead to getting taken advantage of. They can have difficulties saying, "No." They can be quite successful as a Personal assistant, educator, or caterer to a small business.

My Birth Number is : 3

Number 3 Personality Traits
             Birth number 3 are imaginative, peace loving people. Optimistic and fun-loving and strive to uplift and color the environment they live. They are energetic, youthful, enthusiastic like children.

General Characteristics
             Three words that easily define Birth number 3 are- sociable, creative,expressive. They think positive, and are very good in oral, verbal skills. They are talented and like to share their talents and natural gifts with others easily. They possess pleasing manners and are sensitive to others' feelings.They are frank and speak openly.
              The negative characteristics of this Birth number are- they are not good at handling money. They are frivolous, and have tendency to squander money. It is difficult to understand them. Guard against being critical of others, impatient, intolerant, or sometimes overly optimistic. The number 3 can be an enigma and are moody individuals.

Planet- Jupiter

Lucky days- Thursday, Friday and Tuesday are my days

Compatible Birth numbers- 3, 1

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

The Journey Begins..........

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THANK YOU very very much for UR support.


I hope that U will find my BLOG interesting.

Come on friends let,s share UR views with me and tell me something about UR LOVE LIFE

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So I have something for U people for TODAY



ROMANCE & EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION

Emotional attraction is about feeling a deep emotional connection with another person. In a romantic context, emotional attraction can be an equal or greater attraction than physical attraction. In an ideal situation, couples connect on several levels simultaneously and this contributes to a mutual love beyond comprehension. When couples are attracted physically, emotionally and intellectually, their relationship will most definitely intensify.

When a couple is emotionally attracted, there is a very powerful bond between them. The bond created through emotional attraction is very obvious to people outside of the relationship. The visible signs of emotional attraction include a certain look that the couple gives each other. Some people call this the look of love. It is a sort of passionate and focused gaze, which communicates an emotional message to each other. The emotion of love is shared in this type of attraction and speaks louder than words and maybe even louder than actions. The look of love is one that says it all.

Emotional attraction combined with physical attraction almost leaves a couple in a state of bliss so powerful that they are nearly intoxicated with love. Emotional attraction to the point of intoxication is not a common type of feeling. Feelings of love and emotional connection are almost too much to comprehend in such a situation. A mere touch of your partner’s hand in this case may be enough to make you feel weak with passion.

To be attracted emotionally means to be attracted to a person’s emotions in an innocent, yet passionate way. This type of attraction means that you are in love with the way a person feels and you deeply relate to them on this level. When they are sad, you are sad. When they are hurting you are hurting. When they are happy, so are you. It is almost like you mirror the emotions of the person who you attracted to. You actually share their emotions and this makes the two of you deeply connected in an almost spiritual way.

Romance does not always involve emotional attraction. Some people are just physically or intellectually attracted and this creates different sort of bonds between people. Oddly enough, a couple can be physically intimate, yet not connect on an emotional level at all. This can be a sad realization if one person is looking for that deeper emotional connected feeling while the other is content with only the connections of the physical side of things.

Finally, emotional attraction can be very sexy in a relationship context. For example, the intimacy of sensing and relating to the emotions of another person, as if they were your own creates a deep bond. When one person cries, the other consoles them, as if they themselves were crying. When one person laughs, the other laughs and shares in the same joy. Couples who are emotionally attracted enjoy a connection that not everyone can share. If you find yourself emotionally attracted to someone, chances are you will be attracted on other levels too. Be receptive to sharing the emotions of another person and you may be surprised just how attracted you will feel and to whom you feel this attraction towards.
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My First Blog

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiii! Friends I m here to share my views with u all people.

Today I m going to write my first blog as I have created an account today itself.

So, now the question arises Why I m here?

This is just because I think that everyone's life is incomplete without LOVE.

I firmly believe that "LOVE IS LIFE"

LOVE blossoms in everyone's life but once.


I m also in LOVE with someone who is very SPECIAL to me.

I will tell u about my LOVE LIFE each and everything and share with u all people slowly and slowly.

So, if U r having any problems regarding UR LOVE LIFE and needs suggestions.

So, keep in touch with me through my blog I will help U out my Friends.

Today I will tell U about something which is called TRUE LOVE
         Sometimes when you are in a relationship, it is difficult to really know if it is true love or not. Every relationship is so unique and different from each other, but generally speaking there are certain signs that a person can watch for, which reveal true love.

         One of the most obvious signs of truly being in love is when people smile most of the time when they are together. A happy heart brings a happy face. If a person is very happy in the presence of their partner, chances are they are truly in love. Keep in mind that this is not just any smile; this is a smile that nearly glows, which expresses peak happiness in both people.

          The passage of time is another key for couples who are truly in love. Some couples might find that time stands still while they are together, when it fact, time is flying by. This whole distortion of how time is perceived is a sign of a couple being really in love. It is almost like when the couple is together; they lose track of time and practically disappear into a time zone of their own. The love time zone has no beginning or end; it is just a steady dreamlike state of mutual happiness.

         Another sign of true love is when a couple makes each other their priority. There is a lot of work and other obligations, which fill up a person’s day and yet it is a good sign when couples make each other their priority. People should obviously do what they need to do for themselves, but under all this, a deep true love for their partner should be there if it is real love. Part of being in true love of course is to understand each other’s work and obligations so that a good balance is met between these things and the relationship. The key is to make time for the person that you love, as there is a time and place for everything and everyone. Those who are in true love prioritize their partner in this way.

         Random acts of love and thoughtfulness are other indications of true love. When there is no special occasion and your partner does something loving or special for you, you know that it is real love. When a person goes that extra mile to express their love, it is a good thing. It does not have to involve giving materialistic gifts but it could simply be a kind and loving gesture or even a loving conversation about how they feel about you. Random acts of love and thoughtfulness could include things like bringing a rose home to you or giving you a card or taking you out for dinner. Just watch for little gestures of love that mean a lot, at times when you least expect it.

         Also, you know when a person is in love when they think of you in their plans. For example, if a person is planning to go somewhere for the weekend and they ask their partner if they want to come with them. This thoughtfulness shows true love as it expresses desire for their partner to be part of their activities or time away. Little things like this mean so much!

          Finally, you can feel true love in your heart when you are with the right person. Your partner’s hug, kiss and touch are unlike anything you have ever known before. There is no mistaking it when love is for real. Also, there are no doubts for true love. There is a certain mutual confidence in a relationship that is meant to be. True love is powerful and passionate!